After facing his own mortality, B.J. Miller has made it his life’s goal to change the way that people pass away.
When he was a sophomore in college, B.J. Miller went out drinking with friends. On the way to a convenience store at 4 a.m., he decided to climb to the top of a commuter rail car. When he got to the top, he received a massive electrical shock and fell.
He woke up in a hospital a few days later, severely burned and in great pain. Doctors had to amputate both of his legs below the knees and his left arm. Rather than retreating into a permanent shell, Miller went back to school and eventually became a doctor.
Learning from his own near-death experience, Dr. Miller decided to devote his medical career to end-of-life, or palliative care, focusing on the quality of life for the terminally ill and their families.
Dr. Miller eventually became executive director of a small hospice in San Francisco known as the Zen Hospice Project. Once a pioneer, the Zen Hospice is now a role model for a growing effort nationwide to “reclaim death as a human experience instead of primarily a medical one.”
Dr. Miller talks about his experience and his mission in the New York Times Magazine article, “One Man’s Quest to Change the Way We Die.” The article chronicles the story of one young man’s journey to accept a terminal diagnosis of mesothelioma and how Dr. Miller’s approach helped him, and his family, to achieve some peace with the loss of such a young, promising life. The piece is fairly long, but well worth a read, especially if you or someone you love is dealing with a terminal illness.
Reference: New York Times Magazine (January 3, 2017) “One Man’s Quest to Change the Way We Die.”
