1. Develop a warm, and confidential relationship with an attorney.
2. Collect and deliver family and financial information to your attorney. Remember, it will always be held confidentially. Good attorneys will work with your financial planner and accountant to help locate and obtain information. Family information is perhaps the most important part of an estate plan. Your attorney will need to know not only your family tree, but also what are the relationships like, what concerns do you have, and whether there are any special needs. A good attorney will offer a no obligation consultation to talk to you about this information and determine if you need an estate plan.
3. Think about your transfer objectives. This is can be difficult, because you need to think about what will happen after your death. Who will get what and under what terms? Do you what to minimize taxes at all costs? Do you want to help your family avoid probate? You may what to consider trusts that pay out over time, or you may want you heirs to get your estate immediately. There are many issues to discuss, and your attorney should walk you through all of them.
4. Retain an Oklahoma attorney to draft your estate planning documents. A good attorney can tell you exactly what this will cost before the work starts.